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Pillai Mattruthal

Pillai Matrudal and other rituals

  1.    In a  Thamboolam place a silk cloth (red or yellow).  A small statue of Lord Krishna  in a crawling position should be placed alongside the cloth.
  2.        The immediate family members of the bride and the groom place some personal jewels on the Thamboolam
  3.        This thamboolam will be exchanged by the bride and groom thrice.
  4. The newly wed is made to hold a handful of raw rice with a raw banana. The kappu and the raw banana are cut by an elderly member or the priest. After this ritual the couple is allowed to go out.
  5.        The newly weds are  blessed by all.
  6.        A big vessel filled with water should  be ready.  A knife and a ring are placed inside the water . A few spoons of turmeric and Kumkum are mixed well with the water containing the knife and ring. As a time for relaxation and fun a competition is held to check who gets ring/knife. The newly wed is asked to take the ring as a competition. This is to induce the habit of give and take policy between them. 
  7. This is repeated thrice
  8.    This will be followed by palaharapanthi.
  9.       Sweets and savories with a sural will be given to the groom’s sister first.
  10.        Sweets and savories will be disturbed to all the guests,
  11.        This is followed by sothi lunch hosted by the groom side.
  12.    Usually that evening the couple visits the temple first.
  13.    On an auspicious day the newly wed goes for a marruveedu to the groom’s house.
  14.    She should light the lamp and touch the salt jar and must grind two turmeric in ammi.
  15.    After day or two they are invited for second marruveedu from the bride’s house.
  16.    There they receive new clothes and sural.
  17.   In the meantime, the mullaiparai should be taken good care. Must sprinkle water on it. It will slowly sprout.
  18.  On a good day must perform a poojai for the mullaiparai and it is taken to a river or pond in the temple. A poojai is performed there also, the sprouted mullaiparai is dissolved in the water by the bride. This is a very important function. The family should prosper like the sprouted mullaiparai.
  19. All these rituals differ in families. The husband and wife must be complementary and supplementary to each other

 

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