Ponnu Uruki Viduthal

This is a small ceremony in which close members of the bride and the grooms family attend . It is preparation for the making of Thirumangalyam
The twin functions (Pandakkal and Ponnu urukku)usually take place on the same day and time.
On this day the preparations for the thirumangalam will be initiated. A goldsmith is usually invited to melts the gold at an auspicious time.
The Sisters of the groom usually offer the gold for the thirumangalam. As with tradition , She will receive some surals at the time of marriage as a custom for what she has done for her brother
In olden days, the goldsmith used to come to the house and commence the proceedings
As times have changed it is common for some go to the jewellery shop and order for the thirumangalam.
If the goldsmith comes, he should be offered dakshina.(beetal leavea,pakku, banana with some money)
It’s a brief function followed by lunch.
From the groom side they should gift the thirumangalam, thirumangalam chain and a wedding ring for the bride.

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